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Speak Honest Podcast: Real Talk on Relationships, Attachment Styles & the Work of Healing Childhood Trauma

Speak Honest Podcast: Real Talk on Relationships, Attachment Styles & the Work of Healing Childhood Trauma

Jennifer Noble, PCC | Relationship Coach, TEDx Speaker, & Best Selling Author

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Are you ready to heal your attachment style, master healthy communication, and create secure, fulfilling relationships? Subscribe now to uncover the secrets of secure attachment, navigate the challenges of trauma recovery, and improve your communication skills in love and life. In each episode of the Speak Honest podcast, we’ll dive into attachment styles, emotional healing, and proven strategies for deeper connection. It’s time to break free from the cycle of heartbreak and start building the relationships you deserve.

Episodes

110. The Luck You Make 🍀: How Secure Women Create Their Own Momentum

110. The Luck You Make 🍀: How Secure Women Create Their Own Momentum

What if the “luck” you see in other people’s lives isn’t luck at all? In this episode of Speak Honest, I’m unpacking the belief that some people are just luckier than others. Whether it’s relationships, opportunities, or the way things seem to fall into place, it can be easy to feel like life keeps working for everyone else but you. But what if the real difference isn’t luck, it’s momentum? In this conversation, I’m walking you through the psychology behind locus of control, the powerful distinction between outcomes and inputs, and how secure women create movement in their lives by focusing on the choices they can repeat. If you’ve ever felt stuck, discouraged, or like life just keeps happening to you, this episode will help you start seeing where your real influence lives. You might want to listen if: You feel like life keeps working out for other people but not for you. You find yourself waiting for the right timing, opportunity, or relationship to finally change things. You spend a lot of emotional energy analyzing situations you can’t actually control. You know your attachment patterns but still struggle to respond the way you want to in the moment. You’re ready to stop waiting for luck and start creating real momentum in your life. FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
16min•Mar 11, 2026
109. The Real Reason He Pulls Away After It Gets Good

109. The Real Reason He Pulls Away After It Gets Good

Why does he pull away right when everything starts feeling good? In this episode, I’m breaking down what is actually happening underneath that sudden shift. When he goes from consistent and connected to distant and “busy,” it can feel confusing, personal, and intense. But what if the intensity you feel is not chemistry, and what if his pullback is not about your worth? I walk you through the nervous system dynamics that create the push pull pattern so many smart, successful women get caught in. We’re talking amygdala activation, hypervigilance, intermittent reinforcement, and why unpredictability can feel addictive. Once you understand the biology underneath the behavior, you stop chasing intensity and start choosing capacity. And that changes everything. You might want to listen if: You keep attracting emotionally unavailable men who pull away right when things start getting real You feel more attached the moment he becomes inconsistent You replay texts, analyze tone shifts, and feel urgency when communication changes You confuse intensity with compatibility You’re ready to stop internalizing the pullback and start choosing steadiness instead FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
18min•Mar 4, 2026
108. Attachment in Friendships: Why It Hurts So Bad to Be the Friend Who Always Reaches Out

108. Attachment in Friendships: Why It Hurts So Bad to Be the Friend Who Always Reaches Out

Why do adult friendships feel so much harder than they used to… and why does it still sting when you’re the one who keeps reaching out? In this fourth live coaching session with Cordelia, we unpack the hidden attachment wound behind adult friendship struggles. We talk about the longing for a core group, the ache of feeling left out, and the subtle ways we dismiss our own strengths when connection doesn’t look the way we imagined it would. We explore how loneliness in adulthood can activate deeper beliefs like I’m not enough, and how those same beliefs show up in your job, your confidence, and your willingness to start over. This conversation is about more than friendships. It’s about agency. It’s about choosing to go anyway. It’s about learning how to stop taking other people’s limitations personally and start building a life that aligns with who you actually are. You might want to listen if: You crave a core group of friends but feel like you’re always the one making the effort You feel lonely even though you technically “have friends” You struggle with taking dismissal or rejection personally You’re afraid to start over at work because you secretly fear you’re not enough You want to feel more secure and agentic in your relationships instead of stuck or powerless FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
46min•Feb 25, 2026
107. Why You Overreact When He Breathes the Wrong Way

107. Why You Overreact When He Breathes the Wrong Way

Why do the smallest things feel so big in your body? In this episode, I break down what is actually happening when he says “relax” and you feel your jaw tighten, when the dishes are still in the sink and your chest gets hot, or when you have to ask again and something inside you snaps. We’re not talking about betrayal or huge fights. We’re talking about the everyday moments that somehow turn into emotional landmines. You might want to listen if: You feel like you “overreact” to small things in your relationship You get irritated fast and then feel guilty afterward You find yourself replaying tone or words in your head for hours You try to communicate calmly but it still blows up You want to feel secure and steady instead of reactive FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
16min•Feb 18, 2026
106. Love Me Better: Why Wanting More Feels Risky

106. Love Me Better: Why Wanting More Feels Risky

Why does wanting more love feel so risky, even when connection is the thing you want most? In this episode of Speak Honest, I explore what happens inside us when desire, asking, and receiving love start to feel loaded, especially around Valentine’s Day. We slow things down and look at why love doesn’t always land, even when it’s offered, and what begins to shift when you stop overriding yourself in the process of staying connected. You might want to listen if: You want deeper connection but feel guilty or selfish for wanting more You often shrink, over-explain, or apologize when you try to ask for what you need You’re good at giving love but struggle to fully receive it Love shows up, but it doesn’t always land or feel nourishing You’re tired of abandoning yourself just to keep the peace in relationships FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
17min•Feb 11, 2026
105. When the World Feels Unsafe: How Collective Grief Shows Up in Your Body and Relationships

105. When the World Feels Unsafe: How Collective Grief Shows Up in Your Body and Relationships

Have you been feeling heavier, more reactive, or emotionally exhausted lately, even though nothing specific seems “wrong”? In this episode of Speak Honest, I’m unpacking how collective grief, political unrest, and ongoing exposure to distressing news impact your nervous system and quietly spill into your closest relationships. We’ll talk about why your body might feel on edge before your mind catches up, how unprocessed stress shows up as anxiety or conflict at home, and why staying regulated is not avoidance but protection. This is a grounding, compassionate conversation for women who care deeply and want to understand what’s really happening beneath the surface right now. You might want to listen if: You’ve been feeling more tired, irritable, or emotionally sensitive lately and don’t know why The news or social media has been leaving you with a low-level sense of unease or dread You’re noticing more tension, reactivity, or distance in your relationships You feel guilty for enjoying your life when so much is happening in the world You want practical nervous system insight without being told to “just calm down” FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
18min•Feb 4, 2026
104. How to Get Clear on What You Want | Coaching Call with Cordelia (Part 3)

104. How to Get Clear on What You Want | Coaching Call with Cordelia (Part 3)

What if the reason you feel stuck isn’t because you don’t know what to do… but because you’re afraid of choosing the wrong thing? In this coaching call with Cordelia, we talk about what it really looks like to get clear on what you want when fear, uncertainty, and old patterns keep pulling you in different directions. We unpack job search anxiety, shiny object syndrome, and the very real fear of ending up back in environments where you don’t feel heard. This episode is about slowing down, listening to your body, and learning how clarity actually creates safety, confidence, and forward momentum. You might want to listen if: You feel paralyzed by too many options and second guess every decision you make You’re afraid of starting over because you don’t want to repeat past patterns You keep chasing new ideas or opportunities but never feel fully settled Your nervous system gets activated around work, money, or being “put in a corner” You want to feel more confident standing up for what you want without over explaining or backing down FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
36min•Jan 28, 2026
103. Should I Tell My Avoidant Partner About Attachment Theory?

103. Should I Tell My Avoidant Partner About Attachment Theory?

Should you tell your avoidant partner about attachment theory, or is that actually making things harder? In this episode of Speak Honest, I unpack the very real urge to explain, teach, and hope that if your partner just understood attachment theory, everything would finally feel safer. We talk about why that urge so often comes from an activated nervous system, how timing and safety matter more than insight, and what actually creates change in anxious–avoidant dynamics. This episode isn’t about fixing your partner. It’s about understanding what’s happening inside you and learning how to get your power back in the process. You might want to listen if: You feel the constant urge to explain yourself or overteach when your partner pulls away You’ve learned about attachment theory and want your partner to “get it” too You notice yourself feeling more anxious, not less, after trying to help him understand You’re stuck in a push–pull dynamic and don’t know how to change it without chasing You want to feel calmer, clearer, and more grounded no matter how your partner shows up FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
15min•Jan 21, 2026
102. Is This My Intuition or My Attachment Style Acting Up?

102. Is This My Intuition or My Attachment Style Acting Up?

Is this your intuition… or is your anxious attachment getting activated? In this episode of Speak Honest, I answer a listener question that so many self-aware women struggle with. You’ve done the work. You usually feel secure. And yet, in a new connection, something feels unsettled. Not dramatic. Not chaotic. Just off. Together, we break down the difference between intuition and anxious attachment, what secure attachment actually feels like in real life, and how to stay curious instead of turning on yourself when those feelings show up. You might want to listen if: You thought you were secure but dating someone brought up anxious attachment You struggle to tell the difference between intuition and attachment activation You feel pressure to decide quickly whether to stay or leave a relationship You tend to judge or shame yourself when anxious attachment shows up You want to make more grounded, secure decisions in dating and relationships FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
15min•Jan 14, 2026
101. When Being Easygoing Gets You Taken Advantage Of | My Coaching Call with Cordelia

101. When Being Easygoing Gets You Taken Advantage Of | My Coaching Call with Cordelia

Do you ever feel like being easygoing somehow turns into being overlooked, dismissed, or taken advantage of? In this episode, I sit down with Cordelia for our second coaching session and we unpack a pattern so many people live inside of without realizing it. When you’re flexible, capable, and willing to help, those traits can quietly become the reason you end up carrying more than your share, questioning yourself, and feeling trapped or burned out. Together, we explore how these dynamics form, how your nervous system responds when boundaries aren’t honored, and what it actually looks like to start responding differently in real time. This is an honest, grounded conversation about confidence, boundaries, and learning to trust yourself again without becoming rigid or shut down. You might want to listen if: • You’re often described as easygoing but feel like it costs you • You struggle to say no and then feel resentful or overwhelmed afterward • You notice anxiety, shutdown, or burnout building over time • You second-guess yourself and wonder if you’re the problem • You want to set boundaries without feeling guilty, harsh, or unsafe Check out Cordelia’s First Coaching Session FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
36min•Jan 7, 2026
100. How Speak Honest Became 100 Honest Conversations

100. How Speak Honest Became 100 Honest Conversations

Ever wonder how something meaningful actually gets built when you don’t rush it? In this special New Year’s Eve episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the backstory of the Speak Honest Podcast and how it grew into 100 honest conversations about attachment, relationships, nervous system healing, and real change. From an accidental name in a college group project to a steady space for women who are tired of pretending they’re fine, this episode is about consistency, honesty, and staying when nothing seems to be happening yet. We’re celebrating the milestone, reflecting on the journey, and looking ahead to what’s coming next as we step into a new year together. You might want to listen if: You feel behind in your life, healing, or relationships and wonder if the slow path still counts You’re exhausted from repeating the same patterns and want things to finally feel different You’re curious how Speak Honest actually began and why it means so much You’re heading into the new year craving reflection, not pressure You want a reminder that honest, consistent effort really does add up FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
14min•Dec 31, 2025
99. The Real Reason You Talk Too Much When You’re Nervous

99. The Real Reason You Talk Too Much When You’re Nervous

Do you ever walk away from a conversation feeling exhausted because you said way more than you meant to? In this episode of Speak Honest, we unpack the real reason you talk too much when you’re nervous. This isn’t about learning to “say less” or fixing your communication. It’s about understanding the story underneath your urge to overexplain, the fear of being misunderstood, and the quiet self judgment that kicks in when connection feels shaky. I’ll walk you through why overexplaining is actually a nervous system protection strategy and how to shift it by questioning the story instead of performing for understanding. You might want to listen if: • You replay conversations in your head wondering why you said so much • You overexplain when you’re late, emotional, or afraid of being judged • You feel a surge of panic when silence shows up in conversations • You struggle to trust that your words can be simple and still be enough • You want to communicate calmly without feeling exposed or unsafe FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
15min•Dec 24, 2025
98. How Secure Attachment Is Built in Early Childhood | My Conversation with Devon Kuntzman

98. How Secure Attachment Is Built in Early Childhood | My Conversation with Devon Kuntzman

What happens after you lose control as a parent… and why that moment matters more than you think? In this episode, I sit down with parenting expert and ICF-Certified coach Devon Kuntzman for an honest conversation about rupture, repair, and how secure attachment is actually built. We explore why losing control doesn’t damage attachment, how repair calms the nervous system, and what children truly need after emotional moments. We also take this conversation deeper, looking at how the same repair process applies when you’re reparenting your own inner child. If you didn’t grow up with emotional repair, this episode offers a compassionate roadmap for learning how to come back to yourself after mistakes, overwhelm, or self-criticism. This episode is a reminder that secure attachment isn’t about perfection. It’s about consistency, safety, and the willingness to return to connection, with your child and with yourself. You might want to listen if: You feel intense guilt after losing your patience as a parent You’re healing your own attachment wounds while raising children You want to understand how repair builds secure attachment You struggle with self-criticism after emotional moments You’re learning how to reparent your inner child with compassion FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
35min•Dec 17, 2025
97. Why Trauma Dumping Happens And How To Stop It When You Really Like Someone

97. Why Trauma Dumping Happens And How To Stop It When You Really Like Someone

Have you ever walked away from a conversation thinking… why did I say all of that? In this episode we talk about why trauma dumping happens, why insecure attachment makes us overshare too fast, and what you can do to slow it down so you feel more grounded, confident, and connected in your relationships. You might want to listen if: • You overshare when you feel anxious or want someone to like you • You crash into a shame spiral after being vulnerable • You mistake urgency for intimacy • You struggle to regulate before you communicate • You want to understand the real attachment based reason trauma dumping happens FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
14min•Dec 10, 2025
96. Why You Get Activated by “Small Things” | Coaching Call with Cordelia

96. Why You Get Activated by “Small Things” | Coaching Call with Cordelia

Have you ever wondered why the tiniest thing can send your whole body into a spiral even when nothing big is actually happening? In this coaching call with Cordelia, we dig into what is really happening underneath those overwhelming somatic responses and why your nervous system reacts long before your logical mind can catch up. I walk Cordelia through understanding the deeper roots of activation, how trauma memories get stored in the body, and what it looks like to find real evidence of safety when everything feels chaotic. This is a gentle, honest, supportive conversation that will help you understand your own reactions in a whole new way. You might want to listen if: • You get big emotional or physical reactions to things that seem small • You are exhausted from being in fight or flight all the time • You feel unsafe in your body even when nothing is actually wrong • You struggle to calm down once the spiral starts • You want simple, compassionate tools to help your nervous system feel supported again FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
29min•Dec 3, 2025
95. Validate Before You Vent: The Holiday Survival Guide for Sensitive Souls (Part 2)

95. Validate Before You Vent: The Holiday Survival Guide for Sensitive Souls (Part 2)

Ever find yourself replaying an argument and wishing you’d handled it differently? In this episode, I’m walking you through two of the most powerful steps in my communication framework, validation and collaboration, so you can turn conflict into connection this holiday season. We’ll talk about what validation actually means (hint: it’s not agreeing with someone), how to create repair after a rupture, and how collaboration helps you co-create solutions that honor everyone’s needs. If last week’s episode was about regulation, this one’s about repair, the part that brings you back to love, trust, and safety. You might want to listen if: You keep having the same argument on repeat with your partner or family You struggle to express your truth without sounding defensive You want to learn how to repair a rupture without losing your voice You crave deeper connection but don’t know how to get past the tension You’re ready to bring calm, compassion, and collaboration into your relationships this holiday season FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
14min•Nov 26, 2025
94. Raise Before You React: The Holiday Survival Guide for Sensitive Souls (Part 1)

94. Raise Before You React: The Holiday Survival Guide for Sensitive Souls (Part 1)

Ever walk into a holiday gathering already bracing for impact? You know that moment when your stomach tightens, your jaw clenches, and you can feel yourself spiraling before the turkey’s even carved? In this episode, I’m walking you through my 5 step RAISE Method, the same one I teach in my Dance of Attachment book, to help you regulate your nervous system before you react. Think of it as your pre-holiday emotional tune up. I’ll show you how to catch yourself before the meltdown, soothe your body when family dynamics get messy, and stay grounded in who you are, no matter what Aunt Sally says. You might want to listen if: • Family gatherings leave you feeling drained, anxious, or on edge • You tend to shut down, over explain, or spiral when triggered • You want to understand your body’s warning signs before you blow up • You’re craving a real, doable way to stay calm and connected during conflict • You’re ready to learn how to regulate without pretending to be “fine” FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
18min•Nov 19, 2025
93. Radical Acceptance and Chronic Pain: How to Stop Fighting Your Body

93. Radical Acceptance and Chronic Pain: How to Stop Fighting Your Body

Have you ever felt like your body is working against you no matter how hard you try to heal? In this episode, I’m diving deep into what it really means to live with chronic pain. We’ll talk about what’s going on in your nervous system when your body refuses to relax, why the pain isn’t your fault, and how to start creating a sense of safety from the inside out. You’ll hear how radical acceptance can help you stop fighting your body, find compassion for yourself, and start building real strength in the process. You might want to listen if: You feel like your body keeps betraying you. You’ve tried everything to feel better but still feel stuck in pain. You catch yourself feeling guilty for not being able to push through. You want to understand how your mind and body can work together to heal. You’re ready to stop fighting your body and start trusting it again. FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
18min•Nov 12, 2025
92. Tired of Being Tired? Here’s How to Feel Inspired Again | My Conversation with Dr. Deonne

92. Tired of Being Tired? Here’s How to Feel Inspired Again | My Conversation with Dr. Deonne

Ever feel like you’re doing everything right but still running on empty? In this episode, I sit down with transformational coach and author Dr. Deonne Johnson to talk about what happens when you’ve hit emotional burnout and how to find your spark again. We dig into her powerful “Bloomprint” framework, what it really means to take off the Wonder Woman cape, and how to reconnect with yourself (and your relationships) after exhaustion, disappointment, or loss. You’ll walk away with practical steps to feel grounded, re-energized, and inspired again—from the inside out. You might want to listen if: • You’re feeling emotionally drained or disconnected in your relationships • You’ve been over-functioning, people-pleasing, or carrying the emotional load • You’re craving structure and calm after a season of chaos • You want to learn how to create space for yourself without guilt • You’re ready to swap burnout for balance and start feeling inspired again About Our Guest: Dr. Deonne Johnson is a transformational coach, speaker, and author of From Tired to Inspired: A Soulful Guide to Reclaim Your Energy, Joy, and Purpose. She helps women move from burnout to inspired living through her membership, workshops and transformational retreats. Known for her warmth, wisdom, and heart-centered approach, Dr. Deonne guides others to reconnect with themselves, their purpose, and what truly matters. Grab your Copy of From Tired to Inspired FIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
31min•Nov 5, 2025
91. Authentic Expression Over Perfection | My conversation with Ellie Laliberté

91. Authentic Expression Over Perfection | My conversation with Ellie Laliberté

What if the only thing standing between you and your most authentic work is the pressure to sound perfect? In this heartfelt conversation with award-winning author and book coach Ellie Laliberté, we dive into what it really means to create from your truth. We talk about witness consciousness, dropping self-doubt, and letting your writing (or your healing) be messy, human, and alive. Ellie shares how to quiet perfectionism, return to inner peace, and write (or live) for the version of yourself who needed it most. You might want to listen if: • You feel paralyzed by perfectionism or fear of judgment • You’ve lost your creative spark trying to “get it right” • You’re craving more honesty and play in your self-expression • You struggle to let go of control and trust the process • You’re ready to remember that good enough is already enough About Our Guest: Ellie is a Canadian Award Wining Author, a book coach and self-awareness coach. She is passionate about all things spiritual, higher consciousness and she teaches Witness Consciousness Practices. Simple, easy going and always up for a deep - intelligent conversation. She always aims for authenticity and enjoys being playful in a world where too many take their lives way too seriously. She's a mix of calm-grounded and bubbly energy. Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡 Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
32min•Oct 29, 2025
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