The Unfiltered Mom

In today’s episode, Elizabeth, Brooke, Kenisha, and Charmaine are diving into societal norms when it comes to careers or being a stay-at-home parent. They’re getting unfiltered about all the judging people do to one another about careers, the pressures of society to be seen as stable and making a ton of money in order to be successful, and how this is definitely not the case for everyone. How can we shift the way society views success so that we do not have to feel guilty for following a different path, and also, how do we stop the shaming and judging surrounding our own choices? How can we rewire our minds to think positively about these changes instead of focusing on the negative? And most importantly: when we follow what really, truly fills our heart and soul, we won’t have to worry about what anyone else thinks of our choices. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: Stopping the judgment of the choices of fellow women and moms when it comes to their career Creating your own version of success to avoid burnout Why we need to untie success and the amount of money we’re making Does success really equal stability? Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @miss.intentionality Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288

Today, Elizabeth, Brooke, Charmaine, and Kenisha delve into a heartfelt discussion on the challenges of addressing current social issues. They explore the tensions and uncertainties faced when speaking out on topics such as racial injustice and societal conflicts. With personal insights and diverse viewpoints, they reflect on the importance of empathy, understanding, and the courage to engage in difficult dialogues. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: Navigating complexities of societal issues and global crises understanding Addressing personal helplessness and confusion in societal challenges Balancing the desire to speak out with fear of public backlash The importance of diverse perspectives and recognizing biases Resources: Sharon Says So Kenisha’s Meme Reference Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @miss.intentionality Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288 This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

In this episode, Elizabeth, Brooke, Charmaine, and Kenisha boldly explore erotica and sexual empowerment. They delve into the influence of smutty books on personal and relational sexuality, addressing the challenges women face around sexual expression and pleasure. Through personal stories, the conversation highlights the importance of self-exploration, breaking societal taboos, and the role of erotic literature in sexual fulfillment. This episode is an empowering call to women to embrace their sexuality openly and confidently. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: The role of erotic literature in shaping personal sexual experiences and views Female sexual empowerment journey amid societal norms and cultural expectations Effects of purity culture on women's sexual expression and exploration Importance of self-discovery and communication in enhancing sexual relationships Encouraging open sex discussions, use of toys, and erotica exploration Resources: Smutty book list: Pretend You’re Mine by Lucy Skor 50 Shades trilogy by E L James Bridgerton series by Julia Quinn Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski Ph.D. She Comes First by Ian Kerner The Mosa Chronicles series by Ligia Cushman A Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah J. Maas Dipsea The Smuthood FB group Sona vibrator on Amazon Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @miss.intentionality Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288 This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Join Elizabeth, Brooke, Charmaine, and Kenisha in exploring the concept of "couch friends" — deep, effortless connections beyond the surface. In this episode, they delve into the challenges and joys of forming meaningful friendships in adulthood, balancing motherhood and personal relationships, and the desire for a genuine, supportive community. It's a candid look at the essence of true friendship in today's fast-paced world. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: Exploring deep, authentic connections beyond superficial ties Challenges in forming lasting adult friendships amidst busy lifestyles Balancing motherhood and personal relationships for enriched community life The value of intentionality and vulnerability for meaningful, lasting connections Resources: Nikkimarieinc couch friends Jess Janz: Dinner With Strangers Copy of The Unfiltered Mom: Couch Friends Form - just simply go in and duplicate, rename and start using for yourself! Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @miss.intentionality Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288 This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today, Elizabeth, Brooke, Charmaine, and Kenisha tackle the challenges parents face in balancing children's health with social commitments. They delve into the complexities of managing unexpected health issues in children, how these affect social plans, and the associated feelings of guilt when events are canceled. Offering a mix of humor, empathy, and practical advice, this episode is an insightful exploration of finding harmony and camaraderie in the unpredictable journey of parenting. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: The challenges parents face in managing children's health and well-being Navigating playdates and socializing with kids The challenges in parenting kids with special medical needs Emphasizing honest communication and setting social boundaries Finding balance in parenting, fostering solidarity among parents Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @miss.intentionality Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288 This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

In this episode, birth and postpartum doula Elise Bowerman joins Elizabeth, Brooke, and Charmaine to delve into the diverse childbirth experiences and their profound impact on motherhood. Together, they share personal birth stories, highlight the emotional bond between mother and child, and stress the importance of healing from birth traumas. Tune in to explore the intricacies of childbirth and the vital role of advocating for informed choices and emotional support for mothers. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: Exploring diverse childbirth experiences The emotional impact of childbirth and healing from birth-related traumas The significance of maternal influence during pregnancy The importance of advocating for personal choices in childbirth Connect with Elise Bowerman: Website: birthhumanity.com Instagram: @birthhumanity Facebook: @birthhumanity Contact Form: birthhumanity.com/contact-us Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @miss.intentionality Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288 This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

As the holiday season approaches, it brings a kaleidoscope of emotions. In today's episode, Elizabeth, Brooke, and Charmaine engage in an honest discussion about the complexities of this time of year. They share personal experiences of creating new traditions amidst the absence of family members, coping with grief, and managing the financial and emotional pressures of gift-giving. This episode offers a heartfelt exploration of the diverse ways we experience and navigate the festive, yet often challenging, holiday season. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: Establishing new holiday traditions and navigating changes Addressing the emotional impact of grief and loss during the holidays Exploring the complexities of different family dynamics and holiday gatherings The financial and emotional stresses associated with holiday gift-giving Balancing personal needs and emotional well-being during the holiday season Resources: Blog post: Avoid the Holiday Hullabaloo and Start Your Own Traditions Blog post: Easy Tips for Juggling Holiday Visits Read more posts at detroitmom.com Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @miss.intentionality Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288 This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

In this episode, Elizabeth, Brooke, Charmaine, and Kenisha delve into a candid and deep conversation about the complexities of life's celebrations. They kick things off with Charmaine's bold take on skipping weddings and baby showers until a couple has proven their commitment over time. This sparks a raw, real talk about the gritty sides of societal norms and personal feelings. The episode strips away the sugarcoating, urging women to embrace and celebrate their journeys, with all their ups and downs, in true unfiltered style. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: Unconventional view on attending and celebrating events Celebrating personal and professional triumphs beyond traditional events Balancing empathy with personal joy Breaking societal norms and embracing individual journeys Resources: Join the Retreat to Reclaim Community Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @miss.intentionality Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288 Retreat to Reclaim: @retreattoreclaim This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

In this episode, Elizabeth, Brooke, and Kenisha delve into intimate narratives of identity, self-acceptance, and complex family dynamics. They tackle the challenges of estrangement and the profound journey toward redefining forgiveness. This candid conversation highlights the power of setting boundaries and the liberation that comes from confronting generational traumas.

Today, Lauryn Laszczak joins Elizabeth and Brooke in a candid conversation about pregnancy and infant loss. They share their personal experiences and insights when dealing with loss, emphasizing the value of sharing and seeking support. Discover resilience, strength, and profound connection between women who've experienced the heart-wrenching journey of pregnancy and infant loss.

In this thought-provoking episode, Elizabeth, Brooke, and Kenisha delve into the topic of traumatic experiences within a religious or faith-based context. They discuss the challenges of growing up in a single religious environment, which can lead to deep-seated traumas affecting various aspects of life. Tune in for a compelling exploration of religious trauma that encourages self-reflection, and emphasizes the value of accepting diverse belief systems. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: The effects of growing up in a single religious environment Exploring spirituality and belief systems The impact of religious traumas on different aspects of life Acceptance beyond diverse belief systems Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @miss.intentionality Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288 This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

In this episode, Elizabeth, Brooke, Charmaine, and Kenisha tackle our complex relationship with money. They share personal stories, from Kenisha's desire to provide for her kids to Charmaine's feast or famine upbringing. Brooke discusses healing through spending on her children, and Elizabeth questions societal pressures around wealth. They talk about overcompensation for their own childhood and explore money as a form of control. Tune in for a candid conversation on money's emotional grip and its impact on motherhood, family, and self-identity. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: Emotional connection and relationship with money The feast or famine mentality Healing childhood wounds around money-related struggles The societal pressures around wealth and the illusion of success Overcompensating vs.

In conclusion of this two-part series, Elizabeth, Charmaine, and Brooke fearlessly tackle the raw reality of partnership synergy at home. They dissect the essential elements of shared responsibilities in partnership and the importance of having open communication between partners. No mind-reading here – it's all about empowering each other, dispelling the myth that husbands don't want to help, and focusing on teamwork. Join their unfiltered conversation on balancing responsibilities and offering grace in relationships. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: The importance of open and honest communication between partners The misconception that husbands may not want to help Sharing responsibilities and offering grace in partnership Control issues and recognize where you can support your partner Resources: Brene Brown content Fair Play book Fair Play documentary Fair Play card deck Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @miss.intentionality Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288 This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

In this two-part series opener, Elizabeth, Brooke, and Kenisha tackle the complex challenges women face in balancing independence with the desire for support. They discuss the judgment some mothers face for not doing it all and the discomfort of relinquishing control. Tune in as they advocate for a better way to seek support, challenging traditional gender roles and societal expectations while encouraging women to ask for what they need and thrive. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: Balancing independence and seeking support as women Partnership synergy in a household Dealing with judgment and motherhood expectations Social perceptions when husbands take on more parenting Partnership responsibility in raising children Resources: Fair Play Card Deck Fair Play Book Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @miss.intentionality Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288 This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

In today's society, being a woman can feel incredibly challenging. Drawing inspiration from America Ferrera's monologue in the Barbie movie, Elizabeth, Brooke, Charmaine, and Kenisha discuss the difficulties and pressures that women encounter in a hypercritical society. They delve into themes like body positivity, societal pressures, and the double standards surrounding body shaming.

In this episode, Elizabeth and Brooke are joined by special guest Katie Jones as they delve deep into the raw and unfiltered realities of a mother's postpartum journey. Katie shares her experience with postpartum psychosis and anxiety, which led to a hospital stay. Drawing from their personal stories, they discuss the fear of judgment when seeking help, the isolation many moms experience, and the challenge of conveying their postpartum anxieties and depression to others. The episode emphasizes the need for greater support from healthcare providers and fellow moms as they navigate their unique postpartum journeys. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: Recognizing the realities of postpartum depression The challenges of accessing mental health care for mothers Dealing with isolation and fear of mom-shaming The lack of support for mothers during their postpartum journey The importance of creating a safe space for open postpartum communication Resources: Detroit Mom-Approved Guide to Therapists In + Around Detroit Connect on Instagram: Katie Jones: @the.jones.photo.co Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Brooke: @miss.intentionality This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today, Elizabeth, Charmaine, and Kenisha explore the intriguing topic of retreating during life's challenges and using busyness as a shield. They dissect the paradox of turning inward instead of leaning for support, sparking their candid conversation about the profound importance of communication, clarity, and the courage to voice one's feelings. They also unpack the fear of rejection when reaching out for help, reflecting on the complexities of seeking assistance in a world that promotes self-sufficiency. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: Our tendency to withdraw during life's hardships The significance of communication and expressing feelings clearly Fear of rejection when reaching out for help The importance of giving oneself grace and time to process things Having the strength to reach out to others during tough times Resources: Detroit Mom-Approved Guide to Therapists In + Around Detroit Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @‌msbstone Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288 This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

In this episode, Elizabeth, Brooke, and Kenisha explore the world of mother's intuition and the often disheartening reality of being dismissed by society. They explore the profound strength of a mother's inner voice, discussing the essential role of validating instincts and trusting that inner knowing. Tune in to understand the impact of society's doubt on maternal confidence and how empowering conversations can help reshape the narrative around motherhood, intuition, and societal validation. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: The importance of acknowledging and trusting a mother's intuition How mothers' intuition is often dismissed or overlooked The emotional impact of dismissal on maternal confidence Navigating challenges and upholding intuition in modern society The positive effects of validation and empathy in empowering mothers Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @‌msbstone Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288 This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today on the show, Elizabeth, Brooke, Charmaine, and Kenisha delve into the complex landscape of friendships. With raw emotion, they share personal tales of friendship breakups that tug at the heartstrings. As mothers, balancing friendships isn't always easy. They delve deep into the shadows of suppressed feelings, the silent eroder that is gossip, and the quest for genuine connections in friendships. Today on The Unfiltered Mom: The heartache of friendship breakups Navigating the complexities of friendships Motherhood's test on maintaining healthy bonds The damaging effects of gossip on friendships Friendship authenticity and having genuine connections Connect on Instagram: Elizabeth: @elizabethlewis.co Charmaine: @‌charmedwithchar Brooke: @‌msbstone Kenisha: @‌kcoon9288 This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

In this powerful episode, Elizabeth, Brooke, Charmaine, and Kenisha fearlessly tackle the silence that burdens women. They courageously discuss the importance of speaking up about pain, finding a safe space, and trusting others to hold that space. They confront the weight of judgment and shame, advocating for vulnerability as a strength rather than a weakness in a patriarchal society.